Happy New Year…. 2008 Still doesn’t feel like anything special…but I still have some New Year’s Resolutions or insight

What will 2008 bring?

Things that I realized is that you can not be negative in things you do.

-          You either look cynical, or bitter and definitely not classy no matter what education you have.  You should treat others how you want to be treated, whether or not they do the same isn’t your problem.  It’s all about trying and making the effort, if it feels like a waste then who cares, you shouldn’t do things with strings attached or expect something out of it. If you do then you will never be satisfied.

Another is take chances

-          I realized that I have let many love interests slip by but in a way it has been a blessing because seeing the people I liked in their new relationships make me realized that I was much better off being just friends with them.  But living under a rock distorts time and before you know it you’ll be 30 and your natural time clock will tick a little louder each year

-          This year I plan to take chances and move on some prospects.  Yes I pluralized it and realized I don’t know what I want but have interest in a few guys and basically I will enjoy it until I settle and figure who I like being with and who I want to be with.

Think about Future Job plans

-          Work has settle down a bit and I realized that why make drama when it is not needed.  If another opportunity comes with better pay or benefits I will look into it but for now I will just work and do what I have to for work.  I will try to do my best but I will not bend over back to help some people because if it gives me more stress and only benefits them then I will not.

-          If my situation changes and shuffling occurs, I will be more diligent in searching and applying.  It like your relationship with God or someone else, if you’re not making the effort to the relationship, how will you grow or be given to the opportunity to move on?

~ by mymessydrawer on January 2, 2008.